Sunday, December 27, 2009
Monday, December 14, 2009
i always wish i could do more to alleviate the pain of those i care for.
death always leaves us in these weird places. nothing can change that.
grief continues. changes. confuses.
some people don't know they're helping. some people don't know when you're trying to help. some people don't know how or can't help and run or ignore out of fear. we all have assets and limits.
and none of it is easy.
here's to the mother of one of the most insightful young men i've ever come across. to be 23 and so wise is remarkable and i'm sure that's what she passed along to you. i'm sorry for your lossand humbled by your graciousness.
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Sunday, November 29, 2009
i've known michael since he moved to philly 10 years ago. recently we've gotten close, chatting away for hours on end this past year. he's one of the coolest dudes i know & knows why i am NOT a fag hag.